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t3_2oukwt | relationships | Today, I (19m) found out my girlfriend (17f) lied about her age. | She's actually 16. We met online and her profile said 16. But shortly after knowing her a while, we decided to go out, and her birthday was two weeks after mine. On her birthday, she turned "17".
7 months later, some psychotic girl told me that she's 15. I replied saying she's actually 17 and when my girlfriend saw t... | my girlfriend lied about her age, im not mad, she's stressed out now with lots of things going on, and I want to help her feel better. |
t3_4jn7mb | relationship_advice | Though I like where we are, I (26/f) don't want him (43/m) to get the wrong idea. | I've been working with and playing music with him for a while now and we have recently started hanging out outside of music and work...more recently have gone out on a few dates. It's been great; we always have a great time, we've been keeping work and outside life separate, and it's been nice having him as a cuddle bu... | Do I tell him outright we aren't going any further along with details and risk making everything terribly uncomfortable or do I just begin distancing myself? |
t3_ochbg | AskReddit | How long do you spend interested in someone for a relationship? When is the threshold to move on? | Dear Reddit,
I'm currently an 18-year-old male with a developed interest in a girl for roughly two years now. We've went out a couple of times with groups of friends and alone as well and I've gotten to know her quite well. Amongst these events, there were subtle skinships and hints between us; at least to what I anal... | Liked girl for two years now, thought we had mutual attraction, time went by and am confused whether the time and distance would sustain attraction or not. Questioning if I missed my chance by letting time pass by too long. |
t3_36n9my | relationships | Me [33 F] with my Ex [38 M] 1.5 years. Am I just a romantic, or does anyone believe in "choosing" to love anymore or is all just based on how you feel? | I don't want to be long and I'm not going to go into the nitty-gritty details, as I don't feel it is particularly necessary for my question. It's a simple question: am I incorrect that I believe there are points in a relationship that you "choose" to love someone; you don't always "feel" like it? That isn't to say tho... | Apparently I don't get relationships. Does anyone base relationships on their choice to love and commit to a person or is it all based upon feelings now? |
t3_14bd30 | relationships | She [23f] told me [25m] we may have had someone else's abortion. | We hooked up with each other and other people before we started dating. Early in the relationship condoms and birth control failed and we had an abortion.
About two years later we're together but now long distance, and last month I visited her. There, she tells me she hooked up with someone right before we became seri... | Learned way after the fact I may have covered someone else's abortion, not sure I can make eye contact with my girlfriend. |
t3_1u3vay | relationship_advice | My boyfriend (26m) and I(21f) have drunkenly decided to break up the past two nights. | Sorry if this doesn't flow very well, I'm on my cell phone.
We have been together for two years and have always been open about everything. I have always known he doesn't want children and he has always known that I do want children. However, I don't want children for another ten plus years. So we decided to stay toge... | my wonderful relationship of two years is starting to crumple over a disagreeance regarding children. Something that shouldn't be a problem for ten plus years. Are we just kicking a dead horse? |
t3_2uavn7 | running | The plague of ITBS | Hi all. I got hit with ITBS in my right leg while training for a half marathon in October. It was a bummer, but I accepted that I was probably pushing it too much in terms of mileage, not doing the rights things in terms of stretching+conditioning, etc. etc.
I essentially took off from running from November through J... | I was diagnosed with ITBS this past October, took time off and tried to deal with it, it's come back now and I have no clue what to do |
t3_36d5gs | relationships | My husband [M30] might've done something unsavory with my best friend's [F27] underwear. | It's a long weekend here in Canada, so last night my husband [M30] and I [F27] had my best friend Megan [F27] over for a BBQ & a hot-tub. After dinner, Megan used our bathroom to change into her swimsuit. I waited for her, and when she opened the door I saw her clothes folded in a pile on the bathroom counter.
We got ... | Pretty sure my husband [M30] took my best friend's [F27] underwear and masturbated to/with them. |
t3_ute8t | AskReddit | Consistently, one of my roommates will ask another roommate a question and the answer they get is completely beside the point. | Example:
Its as if I asked, "How's the weather?"
And you replied, "There are puddles on the ground"
oookk... sure it's related to the topic of weather but that doesn't really answer my question.
This happens all the time to me with them. Whether it's my conversation or I'm listening to their conversations I constan... | The people around me don't seem to fully comprehend the intention of questions often asked to them. Am I right to feel frustrated with them? |
t3_4upq6x | tifu | TIFU by going to the emergency room. | So, after reading [this fuck up] I knew I had to post mine.
Back in March, I woke up on a beautiful Saturday morning to a terrible stomach ache. After a couple of hours, it was almost unbearable. I called the hospital and they told me since the pain seemed like appendicitis, I should treat it as an emergency and come... | Went to the hospital thinking I had appendicitis, just had to take a shit. I'm still getting hospital bills. |
t3_12eey2 | relationship_advice | I [20F] have been on 2 dates with a Chinese guy [20M] who speaks English as his second language. He told me he loves me after the second date. Advice? | So we have been on two dates and everything is looking great, due for a third tomorrow. However tonight as he was going to bed he told me he was in love with me and he loved this feeling. He only moved to this country (Australia) around 2 months ago so his English isn't perfect, ergo I think he might have just been try... | Chinese guy tells me he loves me, I think (hope) he mistranslated. What should I do? |
t3_2bd30p | relationships | Me [20 M/] with my girlfriend [22 F] of a few months, I'm having trouble accepting her sexual past. All the guys she has been with? How do I get over this? | My girlfriend and I were FWB for about 2 months, and recently started dating. I got out of an emotionally / mentally abusive relationship with an ex girlfriend. She helped me through it all, and talked to me about everything. We became really good friends during our FWB deal. But she is only my second sexual partner, a... | Girlfriend has had more sexual partners than me, it makes me insecure and I feel bothered / annoying / angry because of it. How do I fix this? |
t3_1c7wm3 | jobs | Need help. What am I doing wrong? | Hey there. I've been out of work for many months, living with my parents. I have applied to a ridiculous number of positions near my home, or on campus but have yet to receive any real offers.
Background: Full time 3rd year computer science student. I don't have a car. Bus to school. My grades for CS are very good (a... | College student. Must get a job or be kicked out by my parents. Have terrible work history, decent grades, no solid references, and can only work locally or on campus because no car. |
t3_bee6o | AskReddit | Question about Prednisone and Seroquel | So long story but my girlfriends mom got prescribed way too much prednisone for a rash and it set off this crazy series of manic behaviors (she was doing stuff like leaving messages on her machine that was just her going, "They're playing hells bells on the radio.....AWESOME".)
Her dad told her that they put her on Se... | Girlfriend's Dad said her mom's erratic behavior is because of too much prednisone and now her mom is on Seroquel supposedly to level her off. Plausible story? |
t3_4j5fr3 | relationships | I (31M) saw my wife (26F) on cam and have no idea what to do. | I am crushed and mad as hell at the same time and don't know what to do. I work nights in a warehouse and sometimes it gets really boring and tonight I decided to check out a cam girl site that I've been checking on and off for about a year. I was just scrolling through the first page and I see my fucking wife fingerin... | My wife is a cam girl behind my back and I need to know how to confront her without her using it against me because I was on the cam site. |
t3_n3cv1 | relationships | Reddit, any advice for three college girls living with an 80 year woman on how to handle this delicate situation? | So for various reasons I had to find an apartment this year on short notice and ended up signing a lease for a room in a 4 bedroom apartment with strangers. When I first moved in, 2 other girls in their early twenties were living in the other two rooms on the second floor, where my room also is. About a week after I mo... | Elderly woman lives in our apartment and is incontinent. The entire apartment smell like urine. Is there any way to sensitively bring this up or fix the problem? |
t3_3341kx | self | Venting about grill troubles. Advise? | I know I don't need a girlfriend, but gosh darn dang I sure do want one. I'm not very picky on looks, but I am on personality/interest. I've only had strong enough feelings for a girl once to ask her out and it was a girl I had been friends with on and off from elementary school to now first year of college. I started ... | First time I ask someone on a date at age 19 and it goes from promising to failure. Shit sucks, brah. |
t3_2ljco8 | relationships | Me [17F] confused about my feelings for my Boyfriend[17 M] and relationship of 2.5 years | My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years, He has been my first everything and he is very dear to my heart. I truly do love him.
We're both in our last year of high school and I have been feeling very sad/ confused/ fed up. I have been feeling very confused about whats going to happen to us. I haven`t been 10... | Girl confused about whether to stay in relationship with boyfriend when she still loves him to death, but is really bored with it. |
t3_439zl1 | relationships | My (26F) Maid of Honor (26F) has hurt my feelings repeatedly and I'm not sure how to ask her to step down. | So, my best friend and I are both engaged. I've been dating my fiancé for three+ years and have known him my whole life; she has known her fiancé for about 7mths. This is mildly important later on.
Her and I have had some problems, basically her putting guys ahead of me (cancelling plans, never responds, not setting ... | Best friend and Maid of Honor hasn't been a good friend. I'm considering asking her to step down, and possibly cutting her out of my life. |
t3_pec4f | relationships | Should I break up with her to avoid possibly hurting her? | So I've been with my girlfriend for over three months now, but we've been liking each other since around July. I'm a senior in high school, and she's a junior. I'm planning on moving away to San Fransisco for college after summer. (I live close to L.A., it's about 5 hrs away) she's a really sweet, innocent girl, my clo... | I'm moving far away in a couple months, should I try a long distance relationship, or break it off before it gets too strong? |
t3_44xgjg | running | half-marathon | hello /running/
i've been running for around two months time now, a couple of days a week (2-4 times). the last two weeks i've run 4-5 km each run. this has been done purely as a hobby (plus it's supposedly good you), and i've done no reading/researching until a couple of days ago. now i've given myself the idea, that... | is (semi)couch to half marathon in 5 months do- and adviseable, with no previous races run? |
t3_ilw1j | AskReddit | Would you rather be a farmer or a programmer? | True story. I'm a young (18 years old) person facing this almost laughable decision.
I'm a student with definitely above average marks who's going to go study mathematics at university. I also love programming and have been learning programming by myself since I was 13 or so. My objective would be to either do researc... | Young student faced with deciding whatever he should be a farmer or a programmer/mathematician. Fears crap job and energy/population crisis. Needs help deciding. |
t3_1k5j9c | relationships | I think I have separation anxiety? M&F 19-20 together for 2 years. | I [19F] think I have separation issues.
Whenever my bf [M20] leaves for work or to go back home I start to feel very sad. I get tired, depressed, and I just kinda loose interest in everything.
It starts to happen about a hour before I know he is leaving. I wasn't always like this though. We have been together for 2... | I think I have separation issues with my boyfriend. When he leaves I get sad, the longer he is gone the deeper I slip into depression. What is this? |
t3_48vz99 | relationships | I [25 M] made my GF [25 F] of 9 months feel like I think she's an idiot. How can I avoid doing it again? | For her studies, my GF is doing a project in which a lot of the work is in my area of expertise. As you might expect, she's been asking me for help a lot, and I've been trying to help as much as I can.
Unfortunately a lot of the time I don't really enjoy helping her all that much. I sometimes feel like she doesn't re... | GF is asking for help in a project in my field a lot, and I feel like she doesn't understand what she's doing. How can I be less judgmental and more supportive? |
t3_eb5v1 | needadvice | Following my passion: working with the forefather of a field (x-post from AskReddit) | Alright Redditors, I need your help.
After spending the majority of my life interested in applying principles from my various studies to human interactions, I discovered a field that directly studies that interest. Basically, I found my passion on a chance video from ted.com (yay for the interweb).
First, I caught ho... | I have a chance to work with some of the smartest people in the world, help me close the deal, plan successfully, and execute on it. I promise I'll share the research with Reddit if I succeed at funding it. |
t3_345jy4 | relationships | Me [21M] with my gf [20F]: Going on summer break. | So I've been seeing this girl for about a month in college now. I know it's still early but we've been pretty close over this time. Anyway, our summer plans do not take us anywhere close to each other so we're deciding not to "date," saying how we'll see each other in 4 months when school starts back up. We still said ... | Infatuated with girl I've been seeing for a month, won't see her for 4. How should my mentality be for this. |
t3_3e9wl8 | relationships | Me [21 M] just broke up with my GF [19 F] of close to three years, thought I knew why but now I feel unsure | A few months ago I began feeling doubts our relationship. I was getting interested in dating other people and the thought of being with some us felt appealing. I felt bad staying in a relationship I wasn't fully committed to so I explained it to her and we broke up.
We decided to take a break from each other, no talki... | Thought I wanted to break up with my GF. Did break up and now I feel miserable, don't know if I made the right choice. |
t3_uum12 | BreakUps | Ended a long term long distance and just need someone to say it's okay. | [x-post from r/relationships] (RANT) My boyfriend of 3+ years and I just broke it off...and I have no right to complain because I'm the one that ended it. But it's not like our relationship was bad...in fact it was wonderful, perfect, and everything I had ever wanted but we'd been long distance and I felt like I needed... | I broke up with my long term long distance boyfriend that I still love to go find myself; feeling remorseful and looking for others with a similar story who got through it. |
t3_4cr6np | relationships | Me [24F] concerned about my sister's [21F] boyfriend(?) [32M] and his fiancee/her girlfriend(?) [26F?] | My sister 21/f has lived for about two years with an engaged couple who I think are 32/m and 26/f from my snooping on Facebook and asking around. They've been engaged since this past fall and seem to be getting married in about a year from now. I'm concerned for her because she kind of acts like he's her boyfriend and ... | My sister 21/f moved in with 32/m and his fiancee 26/f, and they seem to have some kind of weird three-way relationship, but I'm afraid for her. |
t3_41w7sb | relationships | Me [28 M] with my partner [26 F] 5 years, I work on computer in day to make a living from home, she thinks its ok for her to sit on Facebook during this time. | I work from home. 9am - 6pm. During this time I treat it like a job away from home. I'm a software engineer. So I ask her not to bug me to do housework, and as she doesn't work at the moment during the day time she could get some things done around the house.
Only fair right? I make our income, and whilst she's at hom... | I work 9 hours a day from home. My partner doesn't work, yet sits on her phone all day on Facebook. Do I have a right to be annoyed? |
t3_2e8ae1 | relationships | Me [22 M] and my ex [20 F] are dating again, but have some resentment issues | So this girl and I dated for a little over a month and it was GREAT, we had a lot of chemistry, in bed and otherwise. And honestly I had never felt so connected to a previous gf right off the bat.
Issues surfaced because I decided to visit one of my best (female) friends in another city for valentines day. Keep in min... | Ex and I break up over me visiting a girl even though I offer to stay and she refuses. Few months later we date again and she still resents me because I should have known to stay in the first place. |
t3_272z4c | relationships | My (20F) SO (21M) of 4yrs moved 30hrs away without discussing it with me... am I overreacting for being upset? | Okay so my SO and I have been in a relationship for 4yrs, he's great and I love him very much. We have always been able to communicate openly in our relationship, which is why we get along so well.
We both just finished our 3rd year of university. During 3rd year he was looking for a co-op placement for a 16 month ter... | My (20F) SO (21M) of 4yrs moved to another province 30hrs away for a job without discussing it with me. How do I let it go and make our new LDR work. |
t3_cb4l1 | AskReddit | So, I've been phished -- now what? | I was recently searching for a job and my aunt decided to "help me out" (by sending me over 9000 links a day to job postings). One of the links she sent me struck me (on first glance) as a local jobs-posting site. The frontpage seemed just to be a registration form. Seconds later (after hitting Submit), I realized that... | Someone has my personal information and they seem to be trying to scrape more and more of it. What can I do about this (if anything)? |
t3_tlsjj | AskReddit | Reddit, I need to know if this is legal? | My landlord came into my apartment to do some work on the plumbing (I live in an apartment in his basement). I am getting ready to move next month so I had a lot of my things out on the counters/tables to get it sorted and packed. My landlord noticed my collection of medieval weaponry, a couple of maces, daggers, a swo... | My landlord saw my collection of my, completely legal, medieval weaponry, he kicked me out of my apartment over two weeks sooner than my actual moving date. |
t3_1lsrpd | relationship_advice | [20/f] attractive with bf, wants to know how to make male FRIENDS & avoid getting hit on/awkness. | I have been with my long distance bf for 3 years and I love him and I'm faithful. I hate getting hit on when he's not around(which is most of the time), but I also wish I had more guy FRIENDS. My question is... what if a guy starts talking to me and even though I'm not interested because I'm in a committed relationsh... | I'm a hot 20 year old in a committed long distance relationship who wants more guy friends! How do I shut guys down who hit on me while still seeing if they would like to be just friends? |
t3_23u00u | relationships | Girlfriend [22F] of 6months has stopped feeling like sex with me [20M]. Is this just the honeymoon phase ending or something different? | It feels like the honeymoon phase is over- we have had a few fights and we both aren't exactly brimming with joy everytime we hang out- to be honest we get a little bit bored and we recently needed a week apart (where she kept messaging saying she missed me).
So she arrived back and I was assuming we'd have steamy 'g... | Girlfriend hasn't felt like sex in a while, is this just the honeymoon phase ending or something more serious? |
t3_33auxf | relationships | I [22F] am becoming bored in my 2 year relationship with my 23M boyfriend. I have to plan out everything we do. How do I suggest ways to fix this? | He's never been the type of person to plan couple activities. His idea of a great evening is ordering take-out and watching tv, which I do enjoy, but that's all he seems to want to do. We never go out, unless one of his out-of-town friends comes up and 12 other people go. I suggest going out, and he'll mutter some agre... | I'm becoming bored with doing nothing, his passiveness about activities, and having to plan every little thing. How do I suggest solutions without having to say the dramatic "I'm bored with you."? |
t3_2k80eg | relationships | Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 7 years, she needs time | So let me start off by saying that I am now in a much better place than when this began about a week ago. I have gotten a lot of solid advice from friends and family.
We, like all couples, have had our issues in the past. It has always been small things however, never anything on the scale of cheating or violating o... | Girlfriend of seven years needs time and space; we're still together; she does not want to talk about us at the moment. |
t3_2srio7 | relationships | Me [23F] and [39M] giving me hot and cold signals. I don't know whether I should tell him. | So there's this guy I'm really close to even though I've only known him for a little over a year. I don't know how to romantically approach guys or anything like that. I can always tell when my other friends are crushing / being hit on but I can never do so for myself.
He tends to initiate the daily texts even when he... | I crushed on someone for the first time in my life (on an older person too!) and it sucks because I don't know what to do. Leave it or go for it? |
t3_186d9n | relationship_advice | [24/f] I'm tired of having the same fights with my fiance [37/m], but he keeps doing the same dumb crap. What do I do now? | My fiance and I have been in a million fights about him giving away the only time we have with just each other to his other friends. I work or go to school multiple evenings a week, and he has his 2 sons 40% of the time. We rarely have time to spend a few good hours together in a row.
This evening he got home aro... | My fiance keeps doing things that we have had major arguments about, and I don't know how to go about getting the point across any differently. |
t3_4i3yzp | loseit | NSV: A failure this week made me realise how far I've come | My NSV actually comes on the wings of defeat. On Tuesday I totally binged, like, really bad, plus I'm working the back shift this week and it's screwing with my schedule. As a result, when I went to the gym the next day I failed miserably. Possibly one of the worst days I can recall recently at.
But, this lead to me r... | Having an absolutely terrible day with both diet and exercise didn't kill my motivation, it made me realize how much I've improved and showed me why what I'm doing is important. |
t3_1qjygs | personalfinance | Post 86 After Tax Contributions | Many people advocated the following:
1. 401(k) up to the company match
2. Max Roth 401(k) (or traditional I don't want to debate that now)
3. Finish maxing out 401(k)
4. Max HSA contributions (if an HSA is the right choice for you again don't want to debate that now)
Now let's say I've done all of that. And lets say ... | We talk about lot about 401(k)s, IRAs, and even HSAs but I haven't read anything on this subreddit about After Tax Contributions (Post 86 specifically) |
t3_2xmx59 | running | Amino energy before runs? | I did my first ever 7 mile run yesterday and felt like I could go miles and miles further when I was done. The person I run with was extremely exhausted by the end of it and started to slow down a lot the last two miles. We've run 4-5 miles a handful of times and I'm the one that is normally cursing the world at the ... | How helpful is amino energy in 'longer' (7 miles which I know is child's play to some on here) versus the adrenaline of setting a personal record by two miles? |
t3_r621i | AskReddit | Concerned about my friend's health, nowhere to turn. | I'm typing this shaking right now, so bear with me.
My best friend of my entire life, birth to now, just called me to say his mom left his dad. But it isn't that simple, as in a regular divorce.
His mom has a very obscure mental disorder, an offshoot of bipolar and schizophrenia. The medication she takes restricts he... | read the whole thing, it's important. Friend's mom abruptly left his dad, friend may have rare mental disorder. I need advice on helping him with grief in this. |
t3_15yg9c | relationship_advice | My sister from Germany's kids have been taken into foster care. | My divorced 23 year old Sister (on my Stepdad's side ) who lives in Germany has 2 daughters, aged 2 and 4.we'll call her Mary. She's been dating a man for a few months and has become pregnant with twins with her new man.
Mary and her ex are currently in a custody battle, with the usual stuff flying back and forth, he ... | German sister loses kids to Social Services; We need to know if it is temporary or if she has really lost full custody due to neglect, so we can make our next move. |
t3_54mn0x | relationships | Need advice on meeting my wife tomorrow | My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed with her. We had some contact since but the last two weeks we barely sent any message... | wife asked to leave family 2 month ago, tomorrow will be first time I will meet wife and kids again - need advice how to behave towards my wife to make the best impression |
t3_2it1cd | Advice | Should I buy a new phone? | I have a htc one m7 unlocked, I rooted the phone and flashed CM10 on it, also I just dropped it and the screen is cracked.
I honestly am tired to mess with my phone so I'm not going to buy any screen replacement to try to repair it
I was going to pay the phone repair place to fix my software to put it back to stock
... | = 200$ to fix my phone, too much - selling it on craigslist - should I buy the same htc one for 220$ or wait for christmas and get a one plus one for 100$ more? |
t3_33ytnt | relationships | My husband wants friends, but only female friends. | I accidentally (yes, for real) stumbled upon the "meet me app" on my husbands phone.
He claims that he was using it to try and meet friends in our area. (He is a stay at home father and in general doesn't have any pals) For the most part, his replies to other people were innocuous, but he recently posted about getti... | am I over reacting? Can men and women just be friends? Why do married men want to *find* female friends? Am I about to be cheated on??? |
t3_2erstg | relationships | Me [28 M] and GF [28 F] have been dating and living together for 2 years, today she wants to end in because we are not engaged yet. | I met my GF in the same company I work at. After a few long months of pursuing, we finally started dating. Only after a few months of dating, she moved in to my apartment. As our relationship got more serious, she started asking when we would get married. I have always told her that it was too early and that we needed ... | GF [28 F] of 2 years breaking up with me [28 M] because I do not want to get engaged. |
t3_3itmri | relationships | Me [21 M] dated with my ex [20 F] for 2 years, have been broken up for about a year and a half now, still talk time to time but I want her back. | Her and I started dating before my senior/her junior year in high school. I went to college in a different state for my first year and a half and I broke up with her when I was home over break halfway into my freshman because the long distance thing wasn't gonna work for us and I thought it was for the better.
When I ... | Dated a girl for 2 years. Broke up because I moved away to college. I transferred to a school closer to home (for unrelated reasons). We are both single again. I want her back. |
t3_507dap | relationships | My [27F] ex-boyfriend [28M] is now my co-worker. His sister [25F] threatened to destroy my life if I don't stay away from him. | My ex and I were together for about 1.5 years. We broke up 4 years ago.
He's autistic. He's not low functioning but he struggled with communication and social interactions significantly. I tried my best during those 1.5 years but it was so difficult. I loved him and wanted the best for him but being with him had beco... | I left my autistic boyfriend 4 years ago. Now we're coworkers at my new job and his sister came to me and threatened to make my life a living hell if I don't leave him alone. |
t3_23y9x7 | loseit | [F, 5'5", SW: 165, CW: 159] I dropped 3.44% body fat over the course of the semester; my triceps skin-fold went from 19mm to 13mm!! | So I'm a Kinesiology major, and one of my classes this semester was a Physical and Motor Fitness Assessment. So lots of training was done to hit specific physical goals; for example, based on body weight I needed to leg press 355, I had to vertical jump 22 inches, and run a 21.0 200m dash (I got a B with 21.5 seconds),... | I dropped 6 lbs and went from 21 to 17.7% body fat, I feel like an athlete! Some clothes fit better and some look humongous!!! |
t3_2ztor9 | Parenting | Daughter watches too much "crap" on Youtube, need tips for merging between learning and having fun. | I need advice with helping my 8yo daughter make a better use of her time. Right now, most of her free time goes to watching fanmade videos and watching a bunch of My Little Pony videos. And then playing video games on the PC. I can see these things taking their toll over her brain. She's kinda addicted and her grades b... | I need good youtube channels, sites, entertainment that could occupy my 8yo daughter but help her develop in some way. |
t3_z44ax | AskReddit | Parents of Reddit: Why did you think it was appropriate to purchase your child and/or teen a laptop and/or iPhone? | I'm a parent of two kids. My wife and I have made a pact that we will, under no circumstances, buy our kids laptops or goddamn iPhones while they are children, and even when they are teens (college, perhaps). I see the value in each item in this modern era, but they are just luxuries which aren't needed to function o... | Seeing way too many 5th graders with iPhone's, overhearing way too many fights between teens and parents about proper laptop usage. I think it's ridiculous. |
t3_wbopo | AskReddit | So depressed, now I find myself unable to eat, anyone have ideas on how I can make my body let me eat? | I have been very depressed lately, I was recently discharged from the navy for a concussion and migraines, which started my depression as I was training for one of the hardest jobs in the military and was doing surprisingly well. Ended up moving home. Now I'm extremely lonely, I have random Hookups... As in I've slept ... | medical discharge, dream crushed, now just want someone to care about me, random sex makes me more depressed, now I can't eat. |
t3_qtfv7 | AskReddit | Need sex advice: Can't cum with a condom, gf won't return oral sex (nsfw) | My current girlfriend is the only girl I've ever had penetrative sex to orgasm with. We've been having sex using the pull-out method, but the other week I got a little excited and didn't pull out in time. Now, even though she's on the pill, she insists on me using a condom. The problem is that I simply can't have an or... | can't keep it up in a condom, but girlfriend won't perform oral on me, so I'm not getting off even after I've gotten her off multiple times. |
t3_1dj2mv | AskReddit | 100k+ income or 70k in debt... what would you choose? | Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I woul... | no debt, got a job offer, combined income over 100k, do this or go in debt to be an engineer. |
t3_4vx4zn | tifu | TIFU by accidentally drinking poisonous motor oil | I was working on my wifes small all-wheel drive SUV this weekend. It was a 95 F day with 90% humidity, and I was guzzling water and iced tea all day. I changed the gear oil in the rear differential. The normal color of the special gear oil is a light amber shade, but with 75k miles on this oil, it had changed to a dark... | Pepper : accidentally tried to poison myself with used gear oil that looked identical to Dr. Pepper, had to get treated in the ER |
t3_4b6xbn | relationships | I [20F] slept with occasional fling [21M], but found out that my friend [20F] liked him. | So, me and this guy have been occasionally sleeping with each other for the past 2 years. By occasional, I mean like every few months. I used to really like him but now, I'm okay with our fling. We have some mutual friends but both of us are pretty private people, so the fling was kept pretty down low.
Last night, a b... | Slept with fling, found out that my friend likes him. Realized I fucked up, what can I do/say to her? |
t3_1p5v93 | relationship_advice | [23M] needs support on how to move on from someone you love after they choose something over you. [x/Post /r/relationships] | My girlfriend [19F] of ten months and I recently broke up. It has been a couple of months coming and we were fighting daily and it seems like nothing I did would get through to her.
She began going to clubs without me and met a 35 year old club promoter who began inviting her out right before we hit the breaking point... | Girl left me for a partying lifestyle, want to either die or firebomb the club.. I won't really, but I need help coping. |
t3_4dfthg | relationships | Me [24M] with my gf [21F] of 5 months - My trust issues even worse now | Please read my first post [here](
Well it just got worse.
A few months ago she told me about some guy she hung out with just as friends, lets say his name is Chris. She said she and Chris were just friends, because at the time she was indeed in a relationship with Fred.
She split with Fred because things weren't worki... | Found out my current GF was talking to other guys in a sexual manner when she was still with her ex, how to proceed? |
t3_3f5hv2 | relationship_advice | He (24M) still has pictures, and I'm(24f) assuming masturbates to, his ex girlfriend | We've been dating for about two and a half years. We live together outside our home town away from both our families. He spent his whole life savings getting me up here and has been a great boyfriend with minor bumps in the road.
The first time I saw the pictures I was devastated, this ex of his cheated on him and st... | bf has hundreds of photos of masturbating ex gf that he lied about deleting twice, that I found by snooping when I told him I wouldn't anymore. |
t3_25mr6z | relationships | My SO [22 M] and I [21 F] relationship completely destroyed but I always catch myself coming back | We've been together for about 3 1/2 years now. We are in long distance about 700 miles away. He's always been very controlling/manipulative about a lot of things. Doesn't like when I go out or hang with friends, hold a conversation with guys who are my friends, etc.
Things hit rock bottom when we both ended up cheatin... | Relationship 3 1/2 years, both cheated. He continued/continues to sleep with the one girl after saying how much he loves/cares about me. I want to let go but just don't know how. |
t3_plbr5 | relationships | boyfriend may have issues with my fraternity | Throwaway account because boyfriend is also redditor.
I am f/22 and boyfriend is same age. We have been together for 2 years now. I am in a co-ed fraternity and I'm worried my boyfriend is uneasy about some of the stuff we do. My fraternity is probably 2/3 male and 1/3 female, and we are all engineers. For example, we... | boyfriend doesn't seem to like that I go out with my fraternity and makes me feel guilty that he can't go sometimes since he goes to a different school. |
t3_4ckbrb | relationships | Im [28m] a lot more attractive now than when I first met girlfriend [29f] of 3 years. Play the field or stay in relationship? | When I met Amber I was skinnyfat and broke. Fast forward to today and my career has taken off beyond my wildest dreams. Im making craploads of money. Last summer a bodybuilder friend of mine introduced me to HGH and steroids. Ive done a few cycles since and my body is amazing.
I get A LOT of attention from women. Whic... | Who I am has changed dramatically since I met my gf. Wondering if I should break up with her and see what else is out there. What would you do? |
t3_3ooa1h | relationships | I [22F] think my husband [23M] of 1.5 years just told me that I took his virginity. Not sure how I feel | No earth shattering relationship drama here, but I'm confused. When my husband and I met, we had sex after about a week. He told me that he hadn't had sex in about 4/5 years. As we got to know each other better, I asked him more about his sex life, because I like sharing this kind of stuff. He said that he'd slept with... | = husband didn't have PIV sex till he met me. I feel weird because he didn't tell me/lied/witheld the truth. How should I look at this situation? |
t3_546ohb | legaladvice | [CA] Possible consequences of welfare shenanigans. | Several months ago, my wife and I had a large fight which resulted in my expulsion from the home via restraining order for 10 weeks. I have since resolved (most) of the issues with my wife, but one thing continues to plague both of us.
While I was out of the home, she filed the necessary paperwork to begin receiving b... | My wife started receiving benefits while I was kicked out of the house, and now I've moved back in. The State was informed, but took no action at the time. What kind of trouble could she get into? |
t3_r95y1 | AskReddit | My SO and I babysit a friend's kids while she works, she accused us of bruising her 2 month old son. What would you do? | Just like the title says. We've known her for about two years, she used to live next door. She has a 5 year old son and a 2 month old son. The 5 year old can be a hellraiser but he's a good kid. The 2 month old is..a baby. He does baby stuff. He's pretty relaxed, unlike a lot of babies I've seen. Doesn't cry a lo... | friend accuses us of bruising her baby while we were babysitting, then backs down when confronted, what would you do? |
t3_hkgyu | AskReddit | Marijuana and the law, how should I react? | I smoked a joint with my friend around 11 near the canal. It was a secluded area with good visibility so we could dispose and pull out cigarettes if need be. Everything went fine, but as we were walking back, we passed by a lamp-post and out of a box on the top, a recorded message played and said something like:
"You ... | after smoking weed, a friend and I were yelled at by a box on top of a pole telling us we were photographed, will be prosecuted and should leave. |
t3_1p4yp9 | loseit | A lot lost and now I'm a little lost. | I've been lurking in loseit for a while (25/M/5'10) and have been using it to get motivation and tips from others to help me find success with my own weight loss. I have something to share which was my motivation for loosing weight and now has put me in a place where I need some help.
About a year ago I met someone on... | I got rejected for being overweight. I literally worked my ass off (-62lbs) only to be rejected for the same reason a year later and now I'm struggling to find a direction and motivation. |
t3_13w51w | legaladvice | BK, Relief from Stay, and Selling the Loan | Here is a situation I've come across and am interested to hear about the legal ramifications. Not looking for "official" legal advice, just thoughts on the situation.
BK declared in 2011. The bank obtained a relief from stay in April 2012 and since that time Borrower has been calling them trying to get the ball ro... | BK, relief from stay obtained by old bank. Old bank sells loan to new bank. Relief from stay still in place? |
t3_4a4pbi | relationships | I [20M] wanted a break with my GF [ 19f] of 1.2 years, now I need help to get her back | My gf and I had broken up about a month ago for constant fighting to, IMO over pretty mundane stuff. We hadn't fought before then really, but we are at different schools about 5 hours apart and the distance finally got to us.
Initially it was just a break, she needed space and so did I. However, I tried to reconcile t... | had break with GF after fighting too much over long distance. She does but doesn't want to get back together. Not really in contact with her. Ended on poor terms. |
t3_2mx7ce | relationships | Me [24 M] with my maybe now ex [21 F] less than a year, just a general quick question. | This wont take long, ill give a brief summary of the relationship and then ask the question, I think this is the right subreddit, if not my apologies.
We have been "together" for around 8 months now, we dont see much of each other because she is busy so much (she has a kid and a very busy job). She said I was her boy... | Girlfriend I rarely see wants to go on a "break". Am I right in thinking that she is just breaking up with me in slow motion? |
t3_2jee60 | tifu | TIFU by mishearing a student | I teach in Australia, where it is normal for schools to have a 'no-hat-no-play' policy (so in Spring and Summer time, students must wear a hat at break times). My school also has a strict response to bad language. So here I was, on yard duty, on the first day of term after our spring vacation, getting kids to put on th... | Accused a kid of saying fuck, by saying fuck. He didn't say fuck. Which made me think, 'Fuck.' |
t3_iysil | AskReddit | Question to any Redditors employed in aerospace, aeronautical engineering fields.. | I have always been interested in science and tech since I was little and more specifically airplanes and rocket ships (who isn't right?). After highschool, I did a Bachelor's degree in Political Science and then went to college and did a certificate in Commercial Aviation / aeronautics. THEN, I did my pilot's flight ... | I want to get a job working in the aerospace technology field and don't know where to start. Ideas will be much appreciated! |
t3_23cfmo | relationships | Me [30 M] with my Long distance GF [25 F] for 10 years, I love her but I can't keep this up any more. | We meet in 2003-2004 in a chat room. We hit it off and quickly fell in love. The problem? She lives in an other country. I'm From the US and she's in Canada. She refuses to move in with me in the US because she has family their. And i refuse to move because I have a house, job, life and family here.
But after 10 years... | I Met a girl online. We've been dating for 10 years but neither one of us want to move in with each other. What do? |
t3_201r3k | relationships | Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 1 year, do I have the right to be annoyed at him for staying out late with his/our friends? | My live-in boyfriend and I used to have the same friend circles that were largely co-ed... a healthy number of girls and boys. This friend group has since drifted apart and I am now one out of two girls in the friend group, the rest are eight boys that my boyfriend and I get along very well with.
The other girl in my ... | BF stays out late with friends til 2am for 3 nights in a row. Am annoyed. Am I being unreasonable? |
t3_4ozydg | Dogtraining | House-soiling issues with an 11 year old dog. | Hello,
I'm unsure whether there is a questions thread or whatnot where I can ask the question I have so I made a post instead. Growing up, we had two dogs for the better part of 10 years and recently had to lose one to illness. Our current dog is an 11 year old Pointer mix who was never properly house-trained during t... | Dog has been with us for a long time, has always peed and pooped in the house, on a training pad while we were away or upstairs in our beds. |
t3_4wgzxu | relationships | 33F wondering if it is still possible to find true love beyond your 20ies | I have been single for 7 years after things ended with a great guy. It was because of the long distance but even worse, various deaths and other tragedies in my family, a resulting depression from it and just in general a life that had been tough up until this point.
I have worked through this and for the last few ye... | Well I guess I am just asking: Are there any males out there more or less my age who have the same issues? Will I ever find someone who shares my values or is it too late? What do you think? |
t3_16scf2 | relationships | I'm [m25] and she's 24 and I don't think I can handle being in an open relationship with her anymore | We started off as friends with benefits about 6 months ago. This is probably the longest FWB I've had in the past 3 years. Usually these relationships only last 1-3 months at most. I've never developed any emotional attachment to my previous hook up buddies and now I've gotten myself into a sticky situation. I for once... | In an open relationship of 6 months, can't decide whether or not to end it now because I've become too attached. I'm 25, shes 24 |
t3_1z100w | relationships | Cheating - would you want to know? | If your SO cheated behind your back with other women/men, would you want to know? Or be left in the dark?
If you knew of someone that fucked with other girls behind his girlfriend's/wife's back, would you tell the SO that didn't know?
Background to my question that I hope to get some kind of insight into:
My SO a... | if your bf / gf was fucking with people behind your back, would you want to be told? Would you tell if you knew? |
t3_33oedk | relationships | Me [35 M] with my wife [35 F] of 11 years, I keep screwing things up, and then screwing up again by not working on fixing it. | My wife and I have been together for about 15 years. I've done some stupid things, and have hurt her feelings many times in the past. The biggest things are that I am unreliable. She can't count on me at all. My wife is willing to continue our relationship, and I want to work on fixing these past mistakes. Even th... | We fight, then try to work it out and I get lazy and quit bringing it up, and working on it. |
t3_1z80wq | self | I told the girl I've had a crush on since August how I feel about her and she didn't even know. | So there's this poetry slam coming up on Tuesday that I'm participating in. I wanted to use either this poem or another, but I wanted her to read it or I wanted to read it to her before anybody else saw it. So I was practicing reading it today in front of the whole class. Obviously everyone knew it was a love poem. My ... | I read a poem about my crush to my crush telling her how I feel about her and she doesn't even know it's for her |
t3_lqh4i | AskReddit | What is the point of the Occupy Wall Street? | First time poster but long time lurker! As a someone with an extensive Finance background I am struggling to understand the point of the Occupy Wall Street movement. The government did "bailout" the banks however, they simply invested money into a system and received a return on investment in return. Yes, Wall Street C... | What would be considered a victory for Occupy Wall Street? What would be the impact to society and our living standards in the US? |
t3_hlr7z | AskReddit | Verizon CSR looking to transition into IT networking & security - best course? | i am currently your neighborhood Verizon CSR. Its a average job that pays the bills. I get to deal with tech all day long so I am happy. Tech has always been my passion but now I feel I want to push it from passion to career.
I am interested in moving towards networking and security. Prior to this position I used to w... | I understand it is usually more so about experience than it is about traditional degrees and certifications, but since I do not have any true experience with only just networking or security, I was wondering what is the best course? |
t3_2q6nd0 | tifu | TIFU by going to the gym | So like most tifu's this wasn't today, but actually yesterday. I decided I would go to the gym with my boyfriend who is pretty fit and works out quite often. I thought I was doing great. I was keeping up and I was trying to do it all just how he did it.
We decided that in addition to free weights and cardio we would t... | I went to the gym with my boyfriend thought I was doing great. Next day I can barely move. Send help. |
t3_1en6bz | relationship_advice | I (M 26) need to find a way to stay away from my best friend (F 24) who am madly in love with | she is amazing, great we get along so well, we hangout a lot, text a lot and all that, I love her more than I love anything in this world (as a friend) and then am also in love with her, I realized this a while back when she told me she was in love with her coworker (M 28), for a second my body stopped feeling things a... | In love with his best friend, she is in love with another dude, I need to stay away from her without telling her why |
t3_20lmve | relationships | What can my girlfriend (F 21) and I (M 22) do when we're hanging out that isn't watch TV or have sex? | We've been together for 3 years and have watched a lot of TV over that time.
Most of the time we hang out we'll watch something together or play video games. We're both really busy and stressed so it's great to be able to relax with each other. Lately though, I've been feeling like it's become all we do.
We've just... | We've fallen into a TV watching routine. What can we do to branch out and do other fun things together? |
t3_3x3ij9 | relationships | I [26F] keep want to call my boyfriend [30M] of 7 months the wrong name [personal issue] | Throwaway because he reddits.
I've been dating my AMAZING boyfriend for the last 7-ish months. Met online and he is the best thing to happen to me in a long time. He's actually my only second serious relationship.
My problem is that in my head, I keep wanting to call him by my ex's name. For example, we'll be cudd... | I keep wanting to call my current boyfriend by my ex's name and it's driving me crazy! Is it really a huge deal or am I making a mountain out of a mole hill? |
t3_36i69g | relationships | Me [17M] getting too attached to online girl [16F] | I basically met this girl online, and we hit it off straight away. We texted every day and stayed up until 4am every night. There's even been two occasions where we stayed up until 6am on a school night and I ended up missing school. There have been a few skype calls as well, and this connection we have is great but...... | Gotten too attached to online girl, having break in talking, want to talk to her but not sure if getting too attached online is big mistake. |
t3_2o61jv | relationship_advice | Does this mean I (26 M) don't have any friends, or does everyone hate me? | So I lost my phone a couple of days ago, and with that happening I got a free flip phone. This sadly meant that all my contacts are gone, and I have no numbers for anybody I know. With this being the case I went to Twitter and Facebook to let all my friends know that I lost my phone and needed peoples numbers and asked... | Lost phone and made a post on social networks saying I needed numbers. People saw posts and liked them, but nobody has sent me any numbers. Does everyone hate me, or do I have no friends? |
t3_330ldt | relationships | She [20F] told me [21M] to think about us, and the more I think about it the less inclined I am to carry on with it. Need some perspective from you guys. | So I've been seeing this girl for a month now and she's wonderful in almost every way, except she hates everything about herself (note: she is not depressed, she is incredibly insecure). Now me on the other hand: I'm easygoing and rarely get angry or annoyed by people, I go out of my way to make others happier, and I d... | I don't think my potential gf is ready for a relationship yet cause she needs to be less insecure. opinions on the dilemma? |
t3_24p7im | relationships | How do I [21M] support a close friend [21F] whose SO of 2 yrs just passed away recently? | I love this close friend of mine. She entered into a relationship with a Guy[23M] without telling her friends about it. It just so happens that I know a guy who knows a guy who knows a guy ... that knows the Guy. So I know something was going on between her and the Guy. I didn't notify anyone that I knew what was going... | Close friend's secret SO of 2 yrs passed away. How do I support her without letting her know I know about the relationship? |
t3_3pipak | relationships | Me [19 M] am having problems keeping a stable emotional level around people. | Hey guys,
So I am someone who's very dependent on emotion/energy to dictate how I act around people. Sometimes I can be 'in the zone' and talk to anyone, and have a great conversation. Usually, when I am like this I am very hyper and I am dictating the flow of the conversation -- I talk fast, and I am fun to be around... | Cannot keep a stable emotional level during discussions. Small things people say to me affect me more than they should. What can I do to combat this? |
t3_2wocks | relationships | I [27m] broke up with my ex [27m] of 2 years. I mulled it over for months, yet it's still killing me. | I wasn't so sure I wanted to be with my ex anymore. We dated for 2 years and eventually I had to break it off. We were both at a busy time in our lives and I feel like the relationship wasn't getting the time it deserved and I had to end it. Even though I comtemplated the break up for a few months before actually pul... | Broke up with an ex of 2 years since it wasn't working out, yet I still like complete crap almost three months later. |
t3_1qmlcs | relationships | I [22 M] work abroad a do not have a permanent home, how do I meet women? | I work a monthly rotation in remote locations around the world. The months when I work, I have zero chance of meeting any women. The other half of the year I spend in hostels either traveling or relaxing in some random country. Needless to say I dont stay anywhere long enough to have a girlfriend, let alone close frien... | 22 M working abroad. No permanent home, in a different country every month. Is it possible to build a lasting relationship with a woman? |
t3_2r6iha | relationships | What if you had the chance to be with someone else? | Me: *M 29* Current SO: *F 26* Former SO: *F 22*
I have been dating a wonderful girl over the past year (long distance). Love her lots. But now, a woman has re-entered my life and has brought the doubts I have over my current relationship further into light.
Current doubts: Accepting the worst of my past, being able t... | Been dating a girl for a while and an ex stepped back into my life and my head is all over the place. |
t3_4lzpol | relationships | My Gf (F22) and I (M23) were talking about marriage. She said that she doesn't want to lose her last name, due to a promise, and finds it a deal breaker if her future husband doesn't take hers. She is also against combining. | Hi Reddit, my gf and I were talking about marriage, due to the fact that our friends are marrying. During our conversation we started to talk metaphorically if we were to get married. She mentioned that she promised her dad that she would pass on his name since he had only daughters. Her older and younger sister don't ... | Gf doesn't want to change name or compromise, says it's a deal breaker if her future husband doesn't take hers |
t3_4epda8 | relationships | It's that time of the year, and my boyfriend [20M] basically disappears [19F] | Hi reddit,
My boyfriend [20M] and I [19F] have been dating for two years. We are long distance, maybe a couple hours a part, but we skype quite often; typically we skype for 1.5-4 hours a day ( its not all talking, its more the the comfort of the presence), and let the call run through the night as we sleep which has... | come exams my boyfriend goes MIA and I feel left in the dust. Am I in the wrong for feeling this way? |
t3_513cc1 | relationships | Should I [21M] stop dating [24F] because of behavior in a her previous relationship? | A few weeks back during the start of the school semester I met a girl who it seems that I've clicked well with. We've been hanging out constantly, going to the gym, studying together, and have gone on several dates. Everything has been going great. However, I think there might be a red flag with her.
The other nigh... | girl I'm dating emotionally cheated in a previous relationship. It was with a crappy ex boyfriend and was during a low point in her life where her parents were divorcing. Should her cheating be seen as a red flag? |
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