text: If it was phrased that way, it was rude.
  If a woman is morbidly obese, you do not say to her, “You are morbidly obese.”
  It may be factually correct, but it is not something you say.
  Trump apparently did jot k ow the soldier’s name.
  I really hope this is not true, but going by the past it seems more than likely.