text: So can I.  I know of many specific instances where American servicemen in Korea were systematically snookered into marrying Korean girls.  While there they were waited on hand and foot, treated like royalty.  It was a 180 from the behavior of American women.  Even the girls families worked the ploy.  But as soon as the new couple returned to the States?  Over comes the woman's family (not negotiable), the poor saps bank accounts are drained clean by constant luxury shopping and the once maid like woman turns into a demanding old crone within a year.
  
  I knew one couple where the wife would make the family move to a new house/part of town so her daughter could go to the "best" (i.e. richest) public schools, from elementary through high school. Goes without saying that the daughter (as well as herself) could only wear the best fashion brands, nicest cars, etc.