text: Well, we've each sketched out our concerns and general perspectives, and here we are. 
  
  I appreciate that this whole scenario stands for you as a worthy  example of doing good, and avoiding evil. 
  
  To me, it looks like malice, grasping at straws.  
  
  That difference notwithstanding, I'm sure we'll agree whole-heartedly that a marriage between us would be an error.