text: I went to the site and read the essay.  I see why you have such bias if that is your literature.  It is one long whine about how badly he has been treated by females and society.  It is no surprise he has been married multiple times; he can't compromise with his partners.  Such trivia as he complains about would have gotten a horse laugh from my spouse; one of us liked to garden, the other to take care of the house.   In good marriages, people divide up chores according to what they like to do.  Honestly, complaining about a waiter taking a woman's food order before his?  Waiters generally take a woman's, or a child, or the oldest person at a table, as standard good manners, and most people don't stress about it.  If he wants to go first, he can certainly ask politely to do so.    All of that has nothing to do with the fact that nationally, women earn 79% of what men earn.  Your attitude about that, and opposition to a real remedy, says a lot about you.