text: Gays can get "married" civilly, but not in the Catholic Church.
  
  Our nature and our body tell us things:  We were made for both union & procreation; integrated self-gift
  
  The Chuch looks at us as wholes - integral development and gift, whereas you look at us as parts, a buffet line of dis-integrable parts. 
  
  Marriage represents the union of Christ & the Church; total self gift, one for the other.  No picking parts. 
  
  How can there be a union of an X and X?  Where's the complementarity/union of that?
  
  Where's the fruit of that mimicked union?
  
  You believe that 
  - sex can be separated from marriage,
  - marriage can be separated from children,
  - sex can be separated from its natural effects,
  - love can be separated from sex (and vice versa),
  - sex can be separated from responsibility
  
  Division, diablo.
  
  You believe love is a feeling, not the willing sacrifice of one toward the other's good.
  
  You believe all these things, whether you've actually articulated them or not to yourself.