text: What are you talking about? Have you read any of my posts in which I talk about marriage? 
  
  I'm not shaming men who don't want to get married. I don't want married (again) either. And, honestly, I think most people probably shouldn't. 
  
  What I have a problem with on this thread is all the men who predictably blame the current state of relationships entirely on women. I've said that women aren't perfect. It might come as a shock to you, but neither are men. 
   
  As a divorced woman who settled for the bare minimum, I also get tired of men insisting that all women clean up in divorce. No, some of us aren't interested in that. Some of us just want out.