TITLE: Question about topology definition
QUESTION [5 upvotes]: I am reading a topology definition:

Let $X$ be a set and let $\tau$ be a family of subsets of $X$. Then $\tau$ is called a topology on $X$ if:

Both the empty set and $X$ are elements of $\tau$
Any union of elements of $\tau$ is an element of $\tau$
Any intersection of finitely many elements of $\tau$ is an element of $\tau$

If $\tau$ is a topology on $X$, then the pair $(X, \tau)$ is called a topological space. The notation $X_\tau$ may be used to denote a set $X$ endowed with the particular topology $\tau$.
The members of $\tau$ are called open sets in $X$.

My question is:
Are the members of $\tau$ open sets or only called open sets?

REPLY [9 votes]: We call these barking, furry animals dogs. But are they really dogs or are they just called this way? Actually, since my native language is German, I would propose that they are not really dogs. They are really Hunde, it's just that they are called dogs in English.
This kind of reasoning doesn't become less absurd when being applied to mathematics. Actually, in mathematics you basically define things by calling certain things a certain way. Mathemticians are firmly on the side of Humpty Dumpty: 

"I don't know what you mean by 'glory,' " Alice said. Humpty Dumpty
  smiled contemptuously. "Of course you don't—till I tell you. I meant
  'there's a nice knock-down argument for you!' " "But 'glory' doesn't
  mean 'a nice knock-down argument'," Alice objected. "When I use a
  word," Humpty Dumpty said, in rather a scornful tone, "it means just
  what I choose it to mean—neither more nor less." -- Lewis Carroll,
  Through the Looking-Glass

So we are actually not lying when we call an open set open.