TITLE: Does $a_{n}/a_{n-1}$ converge to the golden ratio for all Fibonacci-like sequences?
QUESTION [8 upvotes]: Yesterday a friend challenged me to prove that 
$$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}\frac{a_n}{a_{n-1}}=\varphi\; ,$$
where $\varphi$ is the golden ratio, for the Fibonacci series.
I started rewriting the limit as
$$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}\frac{a_n}{a_{n-1}}=\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}\frac{a_{n-1}+a_{n-2}}{a_{n-1}}=\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}1+\frac{a_{n-2}}{a_{n-1}}\; .$$
If the sequence $b_n=\frac{a_n}{a_{n-1}}$ is convergent,
$$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}\frac{a_{n-2}}{a_{n-1}}=\left(\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}\frac{a_n}{a_{n-1}}\right)^{-1}\; .$$
Renaming the desired limit $x$, we obtain the quadratic equation 
$$x=1+\frac{1}{x}$$
$$x^2-x-1=0$$
if $x\neq 0$. Therefore, if $b_n$ is convergent, it must be equal to $\frac{1+\sqrt{5}}{2}$ or $\frac{1-\sqrt{5}}{2}$.
Since $a_n>0$, $b_n>0, \forall n$, so the limit must be equal to $\varphi=\frac{1+\sqrt{5}}{2}$.
This proof made me think that I didn't make use of the initial values of the sequence, so it must hold true for any sequence where $a_{n}=a_{n-1}+a_{n-2}$. The first question is, is $a_{n}/a_{n-1}$ convergent for all Fibonacci-like sequences?
The second and most intriguing for me is, is there any Fibonacci-like sequence where the limit is $\frac{1-\sqrt{5}}{2}$? Since this solution is negative, $a_n$ should change its sing with each $n$, but I couldn't find any values for $a_0$ and $a_1$, which would lead me to this case. If the answer to this question is no, what mathematical sense does this negative solution have?

REPLY [7 votes]: Here is a another view of this. We have $b_n=a_n/a_{n-1}$ and
$$b_{n+1}=1+\frac1{b_n},\tag{*}$$
or,
\begin{align*}
b_{n+1}&=1+\frac1{1+\cfrac1{b_{n-1}}}=1+\cfrac1{1+\frac1{1+\frac1{1+\frac1{1+\cdots}}}}.
\end{align*}
We should be clear about what we actually mean by an expression like this. One way that we could think about it is to starting with some constant like $1$, and then repeatly applying the function $f(x)=1+\dfrac 1x$,
\begin{align*}
c&=1&&=1.000\dots\\
\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}&=\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{1}}}&&=2.000\dots\\
\color{orange}{f(}\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}
\color{orange}{)}&=\
\color{orange}{1+\frac{1}{\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{1}}}}}&&=1.500\dots\\
\color{magenta}{f(}\color{orange}{f(}\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}
\color{orange}{)}\color{magenta}{)}&=\color{magenta}{1+\frac 1{
\color{orange}{1+\frac{1}{\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{1}}}}}}}&&=1.667\dots\\
\color{violet}{f(}\color{magenta}{f(}\color{orange}{f(}\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}
\color{orange}{)}\color{magenta}{)}\color{violet}{)}&=\color{violet}{1+\frac 1{\color{magenta}{1+\frac 1{
\color{orange}{1+\frac{1}{\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{1}}}}}}}}}&&=1.600\dots
\end{align*}
Symbolly what we get is more and more like our infinite fraction.
If we start with $-1/\varphi$,
\begin{align*}
c&=-1/\varphi&&=-0.618\dots\\
\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}&=\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{-1/\varphi}}}&&=-0.618\dots\\
\color{orange}{f(}\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}
\color{orange}{)}&=\
\color{orange}{1+\frac{1}{\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{-1/\varphi}}}}}&&=-0.618\dots\\
\color{magenta}{f(}\color{orange}{f(}\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}
\color{orange}{)}\color{magenta}{)}&=\color{magenta}{1+\frac 1{
\color{orange}{1+\frac{1}{\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{-1/\varphi}}}}}}}&&=-0.618\dots\\
\color{violet}{f(}\color{magenta}{f(}\color{orange}{f(}\color{yellow}{f(}c\color{yellow}{)}
\color{orange}{)}\color{magenta}{)}\color{violet}{)}&=\color{violet}{1+\frac 1{\color{magenta}{1+\frac 1{
\color{orange}{1+\frac{1}{\color{yellow}{1+\frac1{\color{black}{-1/\varphi}}}}}}}}}&&=-0.618\dots
\end{align*}
So no matter how many times we apply it, we're staying fixed at $-1/\varphi$. But even then, with the aid of a calculator, if we start with a random number $\neq-1/\varphi$ (even it's really close to $-1/\varphi$) and perform iteration $x\to x+\dfrac 1x$ again and again, we eventually end up at $1.618...=\varphi$. So,

why the fixed point $\varphi$ favored above the other one $-1/\varphi$?

The transformational understanding of derivatives is going to be helpful for understanding this set up. Now we know that $\varphi$ and $-1/\varphi$ stay fixed in place during this iteration process. But zoom in on a neighborhood around $\varphi$, during each iteration, points in that region get contracted around $\varphi$, meaning that the function $1+\dfrac 1x$ has a derivative with a magnitude that is less than $1$ at this input. In fact, the derivative works out around to be
$$\left|\frac{df}{dx}(\varphi)\right|\approx |-0.38|<1,$$
meaning that each repeated application scrunches the neighborhood around this number smaller and smaller like a gravitational pull towards $\varphi$.
Conversely, at $-1/\varphi$, the magnitude of the derivative actually has a magnitude greater than $1$,
$$\left|\frac{df}{dx}\left(-\frac 1\varphi\right)\right|\approx |-2.62|>1,$$
so points near the fixed point are repelled away from it. We can see that they get stretched by more than a factor of $2$ in each iteration. (They also get flipped around because the derivative is negative here, but the salient fact of stability is just the magnitude.)
We will call $\varphi$ a "stable fixed point", and $-1/\varphi$ an "unstable fixed point". As we can see the stability of a fixed point is determined by whether or not of its derivative is bigger or smaller than $1$. And this explains why $\varphi$ always shows up in the limit.
Reference: 3Blue1Brown.