TITLE: Ideal with zero localizations at prime ideals containing it
QUESTION [5 upvotes]: Let $R$ be a commutative unital ring. I know that if an $R$-module has zero localizations at all prime ideals of $R$, then it is the zero module. 

Consider a proper ideal $I\subset R$ as an $R$-module. Is it true that if localizations of this module at all prime ideals containing $I$ are zero, then it is the zero module? 

This is true for $R$ a DVR (because there is only one non-zero prime ideal which contains all proper ideals).

REPLY [4 votes]: Counterexamples exist. In fact:

Proposition. TFAE:

$I_{\mathfrak p} = 0$ for all primes $\mathfrak p \supset I$
$\forall x \in I : Ann(x) + I = R$
$\forall x \in I :  \exists y \in I : xy=x$


In particular, a nonzero proper ideal in a boolean ring is a counterexample.
Proof. $1 \implies 2$: Take $x \in I$. Suppose there is a prime ideal $\mathfrak p$ containing $Ann(x) + I$. Localizing at $\mathfrak p$, we find $r \in R - \mathfrak p$ with $rx= 0$. This contradicts $Ann(x) \subset \mathfrak p$.
$2 \implies 3$: Take $a \in R$ and $y \in I$ with $a+y = 1$ and $ax = 0$. Then $xy = x$.
$3 \implies 1$: Take $x \in I$, $y \in I$ with $xy = x$ and take $\mathfrak p \supset I$.  Because $(1-y)x = 0$ and $1-y \notin \mathfrak p$, $x$ becomes $0$ in $I_{\mathfrak p}$. $\square$
Milking this, we find:

such $I$ consists of zero divisors.
There are no counterexamples when $R$ is an integral domain.
If $I$ is nonzero, proper and finitely generated, it contains a nontrivial idempotent. Proof: From 2. it follows that $Ann(I) + I = R$. Write $a + x = 1$ with $aI = 0$ and $x \in I$. Then $x^2=x$.

Since you asked about $Spec(R)$ connected and reduced, here's an example (necessarily not Noetherian). Take a field $k$, let $R = k[X_1, X_2, \ldots]$ modulo the ideal generated by the $X_iX_j-X_i$ for $j>i$, and let $I$ be the ideal generated by the $X_i$.