TITLE: Distance between mean and median
QUESTION [11 upvotes]: I want to solve the following problem in T.Tao's random matrix theory book. Let $X$ be a random variable with finite second momment. A median $M(X)$ of $X$ saisfies $\mathbb{P}(X>M(X)),\mathbb{P}(X<M(X))\leq 1/2$. Now I wan to prove that for any median:
$$M(X)=\mathbb{E}(X)+O((\mathbb{Var}(X))^{1/2})$$
I think we have to use Chebyshev's inequality for this, which I have done to obtain:
$$\mathbb{P}(X>\lambda \sigma)\leq \mathbb{P}(|X|>\lambda \sigma)\leq \frac{1}{\lambda ^2}$$
where $\sigma=(\mathbb{Var}(X))^{1/2}$. But I fail to interprete this...

REPLY [5 votes]: Here's a different proof that does not use the fact that $M(X)$ minimizes $c\mapsto E(|X-c|)$.
By Chebyshev’s one-sided inequality (also known as Cantelli's inequality), $$\forall t >0, P\left(\frac{X-E(X)}{\sqrt{Var(X)}}\geq t \right) \leq \frac{1}{1+t^2}$$
Hence, with $t=1$ $$P\left(X\geq E(X)+\sqrt{Var(X)}  \right) \leq \frac{1}{2}$$
thus $M(X)\leq E(X)+\sqrt{Var(X)}$.
Replacing $X$ by $-X$ in the previous inequality (this transformation leaves $Var(X)$ untouched), we have $$P(X\leq E(X)-\sqrt{Var(X)})\leq \frac 12$$
thus $M(X)\geq E(X)-\sqrt{Var(X)}$.
Hence $-\sqrt{Var(X)} \leq M(X)-E(X) \leq \sqrt{Var(X)}$, which rewrites as $$|M(X)-E(X)|\leq \sqrt{Var(X)}$$