TITLE: A tensor product vs the tensor product.
QUESTION [9 upvotes]: I have been reading about tensor products in different books and struggle with the definition of tensor products in the following sense. There is a common construction of a tensor product as a quotient group. One often uses this construction to prove the existence of a tensor product an then denotes the quotient group with $M \otimes_R N$ (assuming the construction was done for $R$-modules $M,N$) and denotes its elements with $m \otimes n$. The question arises whether this tensor product is unique or not and one usually proves that this is unique up to unique isomorphism. This then leads to several authors saying that it is reasonable to speak of the tensor product of $M$ and $N$. My questions are the following.
$(1)$ Why is this a reason to speak of the tensor product? Can't this cause any harm in whatever sense possible (for example lead to contradictions)?
$(2)$ Let $M \otimes_R N$ denote another tensor product of $M$ and $N$, then what would the elements $m \otimes n$ be? Would they be the image of $m \otimes n$ (in the quotient group construction) under the unique isomorphism?
$(3)$ Would it be a possible approach to call the construction of the quotient group the tensor product of $M$ and $N$ and prove all properties with this definition? One could then call any other object satisfying the universal property a tensor product of $M$ and $N$ and that each of those objects is isomorphic (uniquely) to $M \otimes_R N$ (the quotient group construction). It should be the case that the proven properties then also hold for the other tensor products since there exists the unique isomorphism. If this would not cause any "harm" this would for now be the more elegant way to work with the definition for me, since this works around the non uniqueness of the tensor product.
Edit for clarification: What I mean with "possible" in $(3)$ isn't the technical or proof level but rather if proceeding this way would have any downsides or "harm" in any way.
Edit 2: I read lecture notes, Dummit & Foote and Atiyah Macdonald (perhaps some more, but I can't really remember those). As far as I can tell now, Atiyah actually defines the tensor product as precisely the quotient group, if I am not mistaken. This should then answer my 3rd question. It would be nice, however, to get confirmation by someone that I am not misunderstanding this.

REPLY [3 votes]: You have the same question in almost every part of mathematics. Frequently there are two ways to introduce a new mathematical "object":

Constructive approach: Simply give an explicit construction of the object.

Conceptual approach: Specify a characteristic property determining the desired object up to unique isomorphism and then prove existence via giving an explicit construction.


In my opinion the conceptual approach should be preferred because it explains the purpose of what is introduced. This approach is of course more abstract (and perhaps too abstract for beginners).
In the first case one certainly uses the definite article "the" (e.g the tensor product), but in the second case I personally would tend to use the indefinite article "a" (e.g a tensor product) because there are many objects having the characteristic property, i.e. there exist many concrete models realizing the abstract concept. However, in practice one commonly uses the article "the" without caring about a concrete construction.
Here are some examples.

The Cartesian product of sets. Everybody says the Cartesian product although there are many ways to introduce it formally. On the level of basic set theory there is nothing like a pre-existent Cartesian product. One can define the concept of an ordered pair $(a,b)$ by the property $(a,b) = (a',b')$ iff $a = a'$ and $b = b'$, and this seems to be completely intuitive -  but what is $(a,b)$? One can define it as the set $(a,b) = \{\{a\},\{a,b\}\}$ and check that it has the desired property. However, there are other definitions which perform equally well.
In other words, there are various models for the Cartesian product of sets, but nobody cares about it because it is completely irrelevant for all practical purposes which model we take. The essence is the above characteristic property.

The set of integers $\mathbb N$. Conceptually they are characterized by the Peano axioms. Again there are various models, e.g. we can recursively define sets $0 := \emptyset$ and $n+1 = \{n\} \cup n$. Again nobody cares about the concrete model, the essence is that the Peano axioms are satisfied.

The set or real numbers $\mathbb R$. Conceptually they can be characterized as a  Dedekind-complete ordered field. As you know there are various models: Starting with $\mathbb Q$, one can define real numbers e.g. as Dedekind cuts or as equivalence classes of Cauchy sequences. But again nobody cares.


These examples show that it is a philosophical question whether to use the definite or indefinite article. In fact it is irrelevant if you visualize a certain model or take any model without being specific.
Let us now come to your original question. As you know, the concept of tensor product can be defined via a universal property:
Given two $R$-modules $M, N$, we say that an $R$-bilinear map $\tau : A \times B \to C$ to an $R$-module $C$ has the tensor product property if for each  $R$-bilinear map $\beta : A \times B \to D$ to an $R$-module $D$ there exists a unique $R$-linear $\phi : C \to D$ such that $\phi \circ \tau = \beta$.
Clearly for any two $R$-bilinear maps $\tau_i : A \times B \to C_i$ having the tensor product property the unique $\phi$ such that $\phi \circ \tau_1 = \tau_2$ is an isomorphism. This is what you mean by uniqueness up to unique isomorphism. It remains to prove the existence of a map with the tensor product property.  Usually this is done by the quotient group construction mentioned in your question. The result is denoted by $\tau : A \times B \to A \otimes_R B$. It must be emphasized that the object $A \otimes_R B$ on its own does not have any universal property, the map $\tau$ is an essential constituent. If we look at the construction of the object $A \otimes_R B$, it may be fairly obvious what this map looks like, but nevertheless it belongs to the complete specification.
There are certainly other models of maps having the tensor product property, for example when $A = B = R$ we may take $\tau: R \times R \to R$ to be the multiplication map on the ring $R$. In this case your question could be read as

Do we have $R \otimes_R R = R$ or only $R \otimes_R R \approx R$?

Actually it is irrelevant, we could take $R \otimes_R R = R$. But the price would be to work with a case-by-case construction of tensor products. You can do that, but it has a serious problem. In fact one wants to have a functor
$$\otimes_R : \textbf{Mod}_R \times \textbf{Mod}_R \to \textbf{Mod}_R .$$
It is not expedient to say "pick any model of the tensor product" - doing so would involve a variant of the axiom of choice for proper classes. Concerning classes have a look at Can we say," The set of all compact metric spaces"?
This problem can easily be avoided by taking a concrete tensor product construction as that via quotients. We do not need any choice here.
Remark:
A related question is Why define simplicial chain groups as functions rather than free Abelian groups?