TITLE: Can we make rigorous the 'obvious' characterisation of singular homology?
QUESTION [8 upvotes]: It is a well known and often touted fact that the singular homology groups 'count the k- dimensional holes' in a space (see: How does singular homology H_n capture the number of n-dimensional "holes" in a space? for an explanation), but has anyone succeeded in making this heuristic rigorous?
I am aware of the work of Rene Thom on a related subject (see: Cohomology and fundamental classes), but am dubious that this comes close to what I am asking.
Specifically what I am asking is whether there is or indeed ever could be a theorem of the form:

Suppose $M^n \subset \mathbb{R}^m$ is a hausdorff [insert category here] manifold of dimension n: let $Y_k$ be the set of generators of $H_k(M^n)\otimes \mathbb{Q}$ with $k\neq 0,n$ then for each $[x]\in Y_k$ $\exists x \in [x]$ and a point of $x$, $\hat{x}$, s.t. $\exists$ a convex neighbourhood $U$ of $\hat{x} $ with $U \cap M $ homotopic to $\mathbb{R}^{k+1} \setminus 0$.

(The torsion has been killed in an effort to make this a reasonable request)
If not, why not? (I am aware that there could be an arbitrary number of twists in the codimension of the fundamental class for example, but surely this could be sorted out!) Are there counter examples? Is there a situation where this is true?

Edit: After a counter example to the original conjecture, rather than retreating all the way back to manifolds Let's attempt to defend the intermediate bridge of $U \cap M $ homotopic to $S^{i_1} \times... \times S^{i_p}$ with $\Sigma_j i_j=k$
Edit2: $H_2(\mathbb{R}^3 \setminus T \wedge T)$ scuppers that. Compact orientable smooth manifolds it is then...

REPLY [3 votes]: I think that your theorem is "almost" true if we restrict ourselves to a neighborhood of x in (some quotient of) the k-skeleton. And indeed, this is a way to give a precise meaning to "holes" in singular homology. Let me be more specific.
Let's consider a finite CW-complex. The space is built starting with a finite number of points, and attaching a finite number of cells of various dimensions. The k-skeleton $X_k$ is the union of all cells of dimension less than or equal to k. 
The smash $X_k|X_{k-1}$ is obtained from $X_k$ by identifying all points in $X_{k-1}$. If X is a CW-complex, that "smash" is homeomorphic to a bouquet of k-spheres. These spheres are the "holes" we are looking after. From the standard identification
$H_k(X_k|X_{k-1})\simeq H_k(X_k,X_{k-1})$ , we see that each sphere gives rise to an element in the relative homology group 
$H_k(X_k,X_{k-1})$. There are two ways these elements may fail to give an element in $H_k(X)$. 
-->  Instead of capturing a k-dimensional "hole", the cell may in fact "fill" a (k-1)-dimensional "hole". That's what happens when, for example, we cap a cylinder with a disk. So, we are only interested in elements in the kernel of the boundary operator $\delta_k : H_{k}(X_k,X_{k-1})\rightarrow H_{k-1}(X_{k-1})$.
-->  The k-dimensional "hole" may be filled by some $k+1$-dimensional cell. So we should quotient $H(X_k,X_{k-1})$ by the image of the operator $H_{k+1}(X_{k+1},X_k)\rightarrow H_{k}(X_k)\rightarrow H_{k}(X_k,X_{k-1})$. Let us denote that image by $E_k$.
And it works. The group $H_k(X)$ is actually isomorphic to the quotient $ker\ \delta_k / E_k$. So there is a subset of the "holes" in $X_k|X_{k-1}$ that provide a generating family for $H_k(X_k)$. Arguably, the spherical neighborhood you are looking for exists in the smash, not in X, but still, I think it succeeds in making our intuition rigorous. As a reference, I may point to Greenberg "Algebraic topology, an introductory course" (21.8 ff).