TITLE: Actions of finite groups on exotic smooth manifolds of dimension >4
QUESTION [5 upvotes]: Let $M_1^n$ and $M_2^n$, $n>4$ be two smooth compact manifolds that are homeomorphic but not diffeomorphic. Suppose that a finite group is $G$ acting faithfully on $M_1^n$ by diffeomorphisms. Is it true that $G$ admits as well a faithful action on $M_2^n$ by diffeomorphisms?
If no, what would be the a (relatively) simple example?
For example, can one differentiate exotic structures on $S^7$ this way?

REPLY [2 votes]: I think the answer is no. But I don't know the reason. I take the fact that exotic spheres in dimension 7 do not admit orientation reversing diffeomorphisms (but the standard sphere does) as a clue to say that one shouldn't expect an affirmative answer to your question. 
EDIT: I gave a wrong answer and I'm not sure if I can delete the post. I decided to change my answer by a comment and make it CW. My apologies to those who read this expecting to see a right answer...