They went home and told their wives,
that never once in all their lives,
had they known a girl like me,
But... They went home.
They said my house was licking clean,
no word I spoke was ever mean,
I had an air of mystery,
But... They went home.
My praises were on all men's lips,
they liked my smile, my wit, my hips,
they'd spend one night, or two or three.
But...
Insecure and low self-esteem which can be a result of the rejection that she is referring to. 
 It shows that she is expecting to be mistreated by the men she is with but yet they still go home to their wives
They Went Home